English was never a strictly gendered language. Some words are gendered, some or not. It is not like Spanish were nearly every word is gendered and the gender of the word many times determine it's meaning.
What I oppose is the forced neutering of our language for the sake of one political party. Nearly all of the changes in the English language since perhaps the 60's maybe longer ago have come from the left. The party that has fully embraced socialism over freedom. These changes, then, are much like Nuspeak in Orwell's novel 1984.
The changes that are not based on politics I have no objection to. That is just the natural evolution of language.
What I am essentially saying is I will not be dictated to speak in any manner for political reasons. I will not refer to someone as they/them when it is clear that the person is a he/him or a she/her. It is insanity to refer to them by some make believe gender and even more egregious when it is forced by law.
If you want to play make believe with your life that is your choice, just do not force me to play along.