Sorry, it was a comment, not a post. But here it is...
Yet feminists who don’t [wear make up, dye their hair, paint their nails, get butt and breast implants and use Botox] constantly are labeled as ugly, unprofessional, and undesirable. Some have even lost jobs for using their natural hair, wearing less or no makeup, and getting butt reductions.
When you view things from their perspective they don’t blame feminism for forcing them to look that way. They blame men who force them to and magazines for programming their children into accepting it.
From what I understand, their arguement isn’t that all masculinity is toxic but that there is a toxicity to over masculinity when one fails to consider the other perspective.