Are you somehow under the impression that both can't be true?
California, of all places, voted to ban same-sex marriage in 2008. Court overturned that in 2015, but it's still on the books.
I personally have absolutely no problem with it. I'm of the belief that the right needs to stay out of people's bedrooms, but likewise the left needs to take it back IN the bedroom.
There should be SOME laws restricting who you can have sex with, but I know the far left wants to normalize pedophilia and incest, and the far right wants to normalize incest.
As for how you can dress, the closest thing to laws I'm aware of in that regard is "cultural appropriation" culture, not to mention the meltdowns over maga hats and other Trump merch.
Do you think the left isn't banning and burning books?
Also, realizing you mistyped your last point, the SCOTUS didn't make abortion illegal, they only removed an unconstitutional law that protected abortion at a federal level, which is their job. They gave control of abortion laws back to state level (aka small government), where it's supposed to be.