I think there's still a subtle (or maybe not so subtle) difference between constantly shoving one's gender identity in others' faces and demanding it be affirmed and celebrated or else "transphobe!" or "hate crime!"
...and pointing out that Obama's entire presidency was a fraud, even down to his "first lady".
There's a valid point to be made that people shouldn't be bringing it up constantly. But on the other hand, it's still a mind-blowing revelation many people aren't even aware of. Maybe "Michelle" should have done a better job of hiding it if "she" and the entire left wing is going to keep insisting "she" is a natural woman.