Oh, it's a variation of "Great Replacement Theory", which is a super racist conspiracy that black/brown people are going to move here, marry our daughters and have black/brown babies.
If the victim said, "don't print this" that's not the New York Times "covering it up" that's them being respectful to the victim.
If you were a victim of something that you wanted to put behind you and move on from, would you want your name printed in one of the nations highest circulation newspapers?