the part where you said, "we don't need to "look for something to hang on women" as they do a creditable job of that all by themselves." shows that you do – in fact – hate women.
He didn't say any pilot. He said – specifically – a Black pilot. And I quote, "If I see a Black pilot, I’m gonna be like, 'Boy, I hope he’s qualified.'"
Judging someone based on the color their skin is super duper racist.