"First of all, I didn't say they said they "claim to be the center of the universe". I said they SEEM to want to believe that they are. If you're going to quote me, quote me correctly."
Close enough
"Secondly, The comment you referenced was on a completely different thread, OM."
Yes, it was on the real_politics stream. But I'm banned from commenting on that stream so I couldn't reply there directly.
"I don't agree that they "just want to live their lives and be themselves..." They may want that, but not JUST that"
Pretty sure that's primarily it for most trans people
"They want affirmation from others, but are missing one of the critical components critical to living a contented life. And that is that happiness comes from within, not without. If anyone, and this applies across the human spectrum, you and me included, needs affirmation from others besides themselves to be happy, they are in for a long wait. The responsibility for their happiness is their own. Not mine, not yours, but THEIRS"
There's a big difference between needing or wanting affirmation from others, and other people being deliberately hostile to you. It's difficult for transgender youth to be happy in life when their own parents won't accept them for who they are or in some cases even kick them out of the house. Saying "happiness comes from within" is easier said than done.
"I, along with many others are fed up with the transfer of blame for others' unhappiness"
Even when those people intentionally make life unbearable for those people? It's like denying somebody a job and then criticizing them for being upset that they don't have a job.
"I don't hate them, or want them to not exist"
Okay, but others do feel that way
"I just refuse to play their blame game for their own misery"
And again, it's not "their own misery" when other people are treating them horribly.
"And really, if they wanted to be left alone, why is their obsession with proclaiming and parading their Trans-ness so prevalent?"
For many or most trans people, it isn't
"Be who you are and STFU about it"
Why don't those conservatives do the same?