I wrote that list tongue-in-cheek, so the hair color definitely could be red or green and be OK. 😂 It really has more to do with what is ‘under the hair’.
Every woman is unique with individual circumstances and experiences. I would caution you to not be too restrictive on the shortlist you created. People are generally not perfect but can and do change. You could miss out on a very good relationship.
Your fifth requirement would’ve been quite hard back in my day to achieve, and in 2026, probably is near impossible. In fact, I was in that small minority group when I met my then-to-be husband & we got engaged. I no longer belonged to that group by our wedding night.
I think realistically you need to amend that item to be much less restrictive. You are looking for a good woman with high morals and ethics, but not a saint.
I am very glad to see you have high standards, but don’t make them so high that they may very well be impossible to attain.
Your values will make you a very good husband for some lucky lady one of these days. Just keep an open mind, be flexible, put yourself out there, & I wish you the best of luck. 🤞