I have a very dear friend who says he has had a same sex attraction since we were kids.
He has never acted in his attraction.
Although he did marry a very masculine female. They have been happily married for 23 years, are best of friends and have several awesome kids.
She knows about his same sex attraction, Love, accepts and supports him as he struggles with it often.
He says it is like an alcoholic... you crave a drink, but know just one drink will put you on a spiral path you don’t want to go down and will only lead to absolute misery.... but the struggle is real.
I admire him, and anyone overcoming an addiction for keeping their personal goals of self control.
Although he is a church going guy, for him, it isn’t about the tenets of his religion... for him it just isn’t a lifestyle he wants to have. He loves his family and is happy in his decision long ago to be a faithful husband and dad.