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Confession Bear Meme | MY 17 YEAR MARRIAGE ENDED TODAY | image tagged in memes,confession bear | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
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22 ups
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I can understand how you feel......I've had 2 divorces.....my first ex disappeared with my daughter over 10 years ago.....haven't heard a thing about either....just take it day by day......good luck and keep going forward...
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21 ups
That's a tough one!
Sorry, but it's hard to find appropriate words that don't sound corny or preachy, but take time to recover and be kind to yourself, there is life after separation.
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18 ups, 2 replies
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I hope things look up for you soon. :( I can't imagine life without my best friend aka my hubby.
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21 ups
She's my best friend. We've been side by side forever. The friendship is what I am going to miss the most. It's devastating. I can't imagine not having her sleep next to me. The world without her makes no sense.
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5 ups, 1 reply
I wake up crying. And any time during the day I am holding back. I didn't cry when my father died. I haven't cried since I was a kid. Now I sob uncontrollably.
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5 ups, 1 reply
I'm so sorry and wish I knew what to say to take away the hurt. I like the quote from the Bridget Jones Diary movie: "I like you very much. Just the way you are." I know it's hard to even think about ever being with someone else at this time but I hope you find that kind of love in the future. And without trying to sound preachy...."The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." (Ps.34:18) He does care, He truly does.
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4 ups
The thing is that she doesn't work and I'm doing min wage until I find something better and we can move out of my mothers living room into a place. Probably be a two bedroom and we can live as friends and roommates. Going to be tough not being able to give her bum a squeeze when I pass her in the kitchen like I did for 17 years. But at least I will have my best friend with me and it will still be me and her against the world. We will never be a couple again but we will always be a part of each other's lives. We still sleep in the same bed because it's the only option. It's tough.
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17 ups
Keep putting one foot in front of the other! Prayers
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16 ups
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16 ups
Sorry :(
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12 ups, 1 reply
Dude I'm really sorry to read this. I will pray for your and your wife / best friend...for complete reconciliation.
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8 ups
It's been established that it will never happen. I have to pull over driving every five minutes to sob.
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10 ups, 1 reply
Thanks for the support. Just getting over the shock now as I was blindsided. Going to be a rough journey.
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7 ups, 1 reply
I was “blindsided” in 2010. Horrible time in my life to say the least. I learned A LOT about myself navigating through it all. Keep in mind that It gets better.
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7 ups
It will. Right now I'm working on a way to keep her in my life. We need to save the friendship. We're both staying at my mothers now until we can financially get our own place. That was the plan. Now if we can get a two bedroom and live as roommates and best friends I'll be happy.
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10 ups
Sorry to hear Apes. Not fun.
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11 ups
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10 ups, 1 reply
three puns here I am tryin
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3 ups, 1 reply
Anyone know who this was?
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3 ups, 1 reply
I was about to ask the exact same thing! Guess both of us like to investigate the deleted ones,don't we?
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2 ups, 1 reply
Yeah well, I guess because we both talk to SSBY and/or AndrewFinlayson a lot :D
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3 ups, 2 replies
this meme was mine, I deleted my account for NSFW reasons...why are you curious?
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2 ups
Thanks, what was your old account name? A user you may know called supersaiynblueyasir has a meme where he records all the users who have deleted their accounts so we have a way of remembering them. The link is here: imgflip.com/i/1z5waw
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0 ups, 1 reply
the people arent dead (hopefully) but there account are deleted
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1 up, 2 replies
my old account was razputinak47 and it died as a result of too much insanity. it was up all night memeing, it would cause arguments with its loved ones, in the end it was memeing blasphemous remarks and users were not amused so it had to be put to sleep...well i bashed round it round the head with a club and skinned it. Now can stuff it and scare the local kids with it. RIP
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0 ups
thanks and can you give me the time it got deleted apoorixmation is ok
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0 ups, 2 replies
i saw your memes (google) i only saw 2 memes against a user which is a great that it wasnt more cuz then you would become a troller with almost meme unfeatured due to many downvotes
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the memes regarding Raydog and Dashopes were based on their popularity on this site, they wasn't bashing them, infact they got a lot of up votes and people commented with positive laughter, I have been on google and checked and I have 14 out of 18 of my old subs on there... not one was bad. I no 2 had to be deleted. Check memedave subs.."nutty by nature" and then you will see I was no troll.
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I never had any down votes dude..i commented on coollews subs and domima..no trouble here there was a troller called ribeyeluvr who i bashed for trolling a user, i cant remember user name though...memedave i think... img flagged me. i never noticed terms conditions.. my humour is dark ye...but i never troll
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0 ups
dude why did you delete your account ?? i didnt say you were a troller i said that you could have become one well now its too late :(
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0 ups
memedave he is below.. check his nutty by nature sub...... i am not a troll damn it
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9 ups
I'm so sorry to hear that :(
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9 ups, 1 reply
Take Care.
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8 ups, 1 reply
I knew it was inevitable. Just can't stop sobbing.
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7 ups, 1 reply
I'm sorry it's that bad. Wish I could help.
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8 ups
She was my first real love. Before her I never had a girlfriend for more than a month or two.
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10 ups
Well, Hell...
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8 ups
Sorry to hear, hope we help a little bit
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7 ups, 1 reply
I'm so sorry, apesfollowkoba!
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8 ups, 1 reply
Imgflip is what's keeping me going. No real friends but always count on my friends here.
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5 ups
You my good sir need a hug
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7 ups
I'm truly sorry.........
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7 ups
Sorry to hear. Hugs for you.
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6 ups
Genuinely feel bad to UPVOTE this(!) Hey, as Eric Idle says 'Always Look On The Bright Side Of Life'
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6 ups
Been there, friend...hell of a mes. Now I thank God that I even get to see my kids. And I won't tell you it gets better or any shit like that. The hurt stops hurting, but the scar never heals. But you move on. You live. You try not to think of all the broken dreams.
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5 ups, 1 reply
Awww, I'm so sorry. I wish I could give you a hug and a shoulder to cry on, but I'm just some random person on the Internet, so all I can offer you is kind words, and my time. If you ever want to talk about something, anything, you can tell me. I may not be much help, but I will listen. I will not tell anyone else. I want to help as much as I can.
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1 up, 1 reply
You are not just a random person on the internet. Imgflippers are people I follow, check in with daily, laugh and cry with. You are apart of my circle and I cherish all the friends I have in here.
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1 up
(tears) thank you! That means so much to me!
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5 ups
That's defiantly not good. The only relationship I have ever had was my now ex-boyfriend from seventh grade, or last year (Just goes to show how young I am). But in all actuality though, just take it day by day, awesome stuff can happen in the future, so don't get down on yourself now!
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4 ups
Ouch . . . never been married myself so don't know what it feels like but I can only imagine the pain. You have my complete and utter sympathy.
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4 ups
=( I don't know what to say...i really hope u feel better...
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2 ups, 1 reply
Sorry to hear bro. My heart goes out to you. Give it to the good Lord Jesus. He will help you through this, and always be there for you. I’m praying for you and your wife. Hang in there, bro. God bless.
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2 ups
I just cry when I think about never holding her hand again. Smelling her hair. Putting my arm around her shoulder as we walk. Making her laugh.... 17 years, side by side.
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2 ups, 1 reply
That sucks man. I feel your pain. I recently caught my (now ex) girl in bed with my (now ex) best friend. I know it's not the same as a 17 year
long thing , but that's the worst pain one can feel. Please don't do what I did and go on a self destructive spiral, it's never worth it.
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I understand that pain. And the first thing that goes through your mind is you hear about it happening to someone else and it sounds like gossip and your reaction is to shrug and shake your head and say "wow". But when it happens to you the wrecking ball in the gut makes it real.
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5 ups, 2 replies
Take a red pill. MGTOW. I just hope she doesn't divorce **pe you.
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9 ups, 2 replies
I don't care about money or anything. I just want her by my side. It was always me and her against the world. We've been attached since 2001. She doesn't love me anymore but I love her and always will.
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6 ups, 1 reply
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11 ups, 3 replies
Yes, seriously. Men get screwed over in a divorce. Even if the woman's actions are the cause. The bias is almost unbelievable. When I got divorced the state wanted to give my ex over $400 month of my money in child support to her. Ummm I had custody of the children. I eventually got them to understand but even then when they went after her for child support I rarely got any. She would move or change jobs etc. I raised the kids on my own and she still owes over 5K in back support but I'll never see it. Why? Because I'm a man . If she had the kids and I owed money they would garnish my wages or put me in jail. But she's a woman. I'll never see a dime of that money she owes me.
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7 ups
I agree with you that there are some horrible inequalities in the legal system when it comes to stuff like that, but this whole "red pill, MGTOW" MRA stuff just sounds laughable, and the term "divorce [email protected]" sounds even more insane
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5 ups
You're not wrong.
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2 ups
Amen... Women in NY can trip and fall and land on 10 dicks and the judge will still give them the house, cars, kids and you get the bill. Try dragging that financial burden to another relationship. It never works out for the men.
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2 ups
i can't say that i understand how that's feeling is but i'm sure that it is very, very bad. I hope that you'll feel better soon and move on( to the next... i don't know..)
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1 up, 1 reply
Sorry man... The important thing is that you know how to love. You'll find love again, you can never fathom it while you are in the throes of a heartbreak... Don't do what I did and try to drink it away or hide it with drugs. It only makes it worse.
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2 ups
I really only drink a handful of times a year and smoke pot in small quantities at a time. But I understand the temptation. It's that voice in your head saying "hey, a bottle of Jameson's will numb this."
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1 up, 1 reply
A world of opportunity has open up for you
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1 up
It has. I know that now. The problem is that we made better friends than lovers. Sexually incompatible and low attraction. I just mourn the thought of missing my best friend.
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1 up
So very sorry to hear that. That is a long time to be with someone. Be gentle with yourself. Prayer really works, because there is really someone who loves you listening.
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1 up, 1 reply
So sorry to hear that. Cry it out and then make them regret it
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1 up, 1 reply
That's my plan. I will cherish every moment we have before she leaves and not show any anger or depression.
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1 up, 1 reply
Well, that just speaks to the kind of man you are..... and she was lucky to have you.... the next will appreciate all the things that she didnt. Great luck to you in that journey my friend
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0 ups
Thank you. But I don't want there to be a next one. She was my only love and it's not that I want someone in my life or I don't want to be single. I just want her. I'm still having heavy tears over this. I just want to smile and look at her face.
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But.... imgflip.com/i/259uzq

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0 ups
Lol. That one was one in a response on a thread. More satirical then anything. I admit that I posted several about sexless marriage inspired by true events. It was the beginning of the end. But I never wanted to avoid her. I can't stand being away from her.
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1 up
In sorry
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1 up
My deepest condolences, Apes. I've also been with my (2nd) wife for 17 years, and it's like riding a wild bull through a minefield during a tornado. You sound like me after my 1st wife left me, though. You never get over it, but the pain dulls over the years. I hope and pray you are able to work it out against all odds.
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my sincere condolences
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1 up
Hey man. You probably don't remember me but my previous account was Sir_Unknown. I know I'm a little late but I'm sorry to hear about what happened. If you need anything I'll be here. Don't be a stranger.
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1 up, 1 reply
I've been on that roller coaster twice my friend, the first, there's nothing easy about it. The hardest part is keeping the emotions together, and understanding why you feel the way you do at different times (emotions change ads you progress). Make sure there is someone you can talk things through with, friend, clergy even a paid therapist. May you find the strength, and I wish you the best. Feel free to reach out if you need it.
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2 ups, 1 reply
Thank you. It's the roller coaster of emotions that drains me. I'll be at work and start sobbing. Then I'll feel better. Five minutes later I'm sobbing again.
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1 up, 1 reply
I hear ya. As bad as it was for me, at least mine went to her sister. There will be some wild swings of emotion, feelings will pop up you didn't know were there and ideas. I only bring this up to let you know they are coming, and its normal to go from hurt to anger to distrust and others. Its hard to say prepare yourself, but that's what i'm trying to say. Hang in there, take it day by day and it will get easier in time, just not this week or next.
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2 ups, 1 reply
Thanks. I cry and I get angry then all the other emotions. Then I get exhausted from thinking about it.
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1 up, 1 reply
Keep up with what's working as therapy for you, but also branch out!
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2 ups, 1 reply
It's the same feeling as losing a loved one to death. But it's worse because they died on purpose because they didn't love you. I can't say goodbye to her. I can't win her back and I can't say goodbye
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1 up
Yeah, if this is permanent, you have to part company. You have to spend time apart to 1. give her a chance to decide this is what she wants and 2. if it is you can start to heal.
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Sorry to hear that. A lot of us can relate. My wife kicked me out 6 months before I joined Imgflip, divorced me the following year,and less than a year after the divorce was final, she passed away. We were a year and a month short of 40 years married when the divorce was final.

You may think that like isn't worth living for without her, but thing again. I wrestled with that during a separation and realized that life is worth living. I lived 20 years without her before we met, I've lived 3 years since we separated. I've got my kids and grandkids to keep me motivated. You'll pull through. If you need help, talk to your clergyman. They're better trained at helping you through this tough time
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1 up
Nothing witty to say, just good luck navigating through it.
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1 up
really sorry
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1 up, 1 reply
It's just a lady... you'll find another one... either that or you'll be happy and won't, lol... keep your chin up, its not the end of the world.
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0 ups
She was the one who ended it. She's still living with me but only until she can afford to leave. I'm clinging on to every moment I have left with her.
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5 ups, 1 reply
Yeah, it was just your soul mate who's been torn apart from you. It's just your best friend, your lifetime companion who just exited your life. Just deal with it already.

You arsehole.
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3 ups, 2 replies
Good words. Best friend only friend. Soulmate. (Tears)
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4 ups, 1 reply
Here's a tip that got me through my depression (I think it might help you, too.)

It's ok to feel sad. Everybody feels sad sometimes. But the important thing to remember is: do not escalate this into anything more. If you think that you are getting too sad, or you're having depressing thoughts, then stop, and distract yourself. Go on Imgflip. Go on Youtube. Remember a funny joke.

I really hope this helps.
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4 ups, 1 reply
I have been doing that. Ok enough crying let me see what's new on imgflip or Netflix. I can cry again tomorrow etc.
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4 ups, 1 reply
That's the spirit! What kind of things do you watch on Netflix?
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2 ups, 1 reply
Brooklyn 99, last man on earth. Light hearted stuff.
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1 up
That's nice! Brooklyn 99 is quite good! You have good taste in shows!
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3 ups
Thank you. Don't worry, it's going to be ok. You're a brilliant, intelligent, witty person and I'm sure that there are millions of gals who fancy you. But if you're not ready to find a new partner, then that's ok. Get a cat. Or a dog. They'll provide you with the companionship and love that you need in these sad times. I truly hope that you will be happy again, and soon. I
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8 ups, 1 reply
Suicide? Sounds scary. Why don't you go show us how to do it first?
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3 ups, 1 reply
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0 ups
Thank you!
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