But most women in Iran don't get to pick. So their actions seem kinda contradictory.

That sounds about right.

It's like with the criminal illegal immigrants get rid of the worst first, and the same should go for family members with connections to terror organizations. It's the same thing right neither one has the best interest of this country or it's citizens at heart.

And of course doesn't want to be held accountable for it.

Yes most politicians like him don't care about the voters they just wanted the voter's tax dollars to spend on their special interests. I'm well acquainted with politicians like that as I hope you can see.