And in the case the "father" leaves, runs after a one night stand, carelessness, heat of the moment, two ships passing in the night, then she is left holding the bag, alone scared, ashamed etc. What then? She has a choice, legal and not anybodys situation but hers. You've never had a one night stand, or a vacation tryst? Meet someone and a sudden infatuation leading to a quickie in a restroom at an airport on your travels? Accidents happen. Not saying I have or have not, but lust is lust. Condoms help but not all womens birth control are 100%. Whether it be the pill, implant, IUD etc etc.