Kamikaze already answered your question. They go on to say, "experience, level-headedness, compassion, moderation, and bipartisanship."
What about Trump and his dementia and his hypocrisy? I remember some nasty names as well... Lyin' Ted, Liddle Marco, Crooked Hillary, Mr.Magoo, Pocahontas, Sleepy Joe, Cryin' Chuck, Nervous Nancy - and that's just from Trump. His supporters go on with their own set of nicknames for just people who are critical, but may not even necessarily be against Trump or Republicans in general; RINOs, snowflakes, crybabies, libtards, Demonrats, and traitors. There are more, and much more.
Eventually it has to stop. Eventually, someone one will have to sit down and talk. And if our representatives cannot do their jobs, if the Republicans continue to obstruct as they did under Obama and Trump; then I recommend you consider that your anger isn't on liberals or Democrats but the misrepresentation of the Republicans who are suppose to represent you.