Real feminism, or militant feminism?
I believe that women can do anything men can do, but that doesn't mean we all will. Statistically, we have differerent inclinations. I'm not held down by the "patriarchy." It is okay for a man to "hit on me" so long as he stops if I ask and accepts no as an answer, but expressing interest (in a non skeevy way, of course) is not "harassment."