"Well anyways, getting back on topic. You do realise that you insulted an 16 year old child as autistic. Can you explain why?"
Why would you choose to repeat your ignorance by claiming that calling her what she is, what she has identified herself as, is insulting.
It's only YOU people who automatically think it's an insult. Christ, if I called Obama "black", you'd claim I was being racist. It's only halfwits like YOU who think minorities of any sort must feel bad being what they are. You're just so ignorant that you truly think you're being helpful with your racism, sexism, ableism, etc.
For example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3JGmKHrWKMQ
Now, stop trying to shift /your/ bigotry onto me.