Homophobia itself is no view on sexuality. It's just hating people for something you shouldn't care about.Even if homosexuality was a disease, or something dirty or filthy or whatever, do you have to watch them? Do you have to love them like they love each other?
Now I am not homosexual, but still, do you have to love the girls I love? If you would think my girl-friend/wife is downright ugly, are you then the one who's got to live with her?
I cannot imagine myself having sex with somebody of my own gender, I'll be honest about that one. Only females for me in that department, but it's not up to me to judge people who have the same issue with people of the opposite sex.
Homophobia is not a view on sexuality itself. It's just your failure to accept that some people are falling in love with people of their own gender and your will to oppress them your visions. And if your own visions are "normal" (whatever that means) or "healthy" is actually irrelevant. You just gotta leave them be.
Eating French fries drown in mayonnaise is by far more unhealthy and are you gonna harass the crap out of people who eat that? Are you gonna harass the crap out of people who smoke? Are you gonna harass the crap out of people drink beer like if it were just water? Of course you won't.
Then why harass the crap out of gays? Harassment is NOT normal, and certainly not healthy either. And that is all homophobia is about. Harassing the crap out of people just because you fear their sexuality.
And I ask again what is "normal". It has been scientifically proven that gays fall in love in the same way straights do. By responding to hormones they own body has or creates. Only they respond to people the same sex.... big deal... And you won't allow gays to criticize your sexual life, do you... do criticize theirs...
All I ask/require from gays is to accept I am not gay, so if they fall in love with me, then I'll have to decline for a date/relationship/etc. All gays I've met so far, know this about me, and accepted that.
And I wonder... Is your own sexual life without any issues at all? I heavily doubt it. So who are you to be arrogant over the sexual lives of somebody else?