Your response is actually racist. If one is in the group of people that has advantages that others do not, usually assumed in America to be white/male, they seek to defend this. One seeks to create policy that entrenches one's advantage and often justifies the abuse of others by degrading their status from equal to one's to less than one's. Example: they're heathens or amoral, or not as smart etc. After unfair policies are in place, modes of thinking are necessary to validate the policy. (taking down statues would 'erase history' from all books as well, have rules requiring NFL players to stand during the Anthem because it disrespects the anthem)
One may seek to draw attention from the issue being discussed, eg 'why don't they do X if they do not like the situation?' or 'why doesn't she wear more conservative clothes if she doesn't like cat calls or being raped?' which is also known as victim blaming.
One may seek a fix that in no way threatens their advantaged place in society: 'if they leave, they're no longer a threat.
I am open to new correct information that requires me to change my view.