I see you are still playing stupid games and attempting to justify things using apple vs oranges arguments. She was unarmed breaking and entering, not a threat, not a member of an active insurgency group and not already known to LE.
Alex was a known terrorist, in an active cell, he was considered a threat just by being present in a place he had no reason to be at. He was openly hostile and refused to comply when an arrest attempt was made.
The only things in common between the two was both are dead; both were shot and neither had to die.