It is such an obvious situation which has been covered ad nauseam by the media. Oh, that's right, your idea of news is to switch on CNN.
Okay, watch this video from a man who lives in California, was impacted by the fires, and knows a bit about DEI. He speaks of double standards, how men and women are equal but are not equivalent, over regulation, etc. He brings out quite a few good points that will give you something to think about.
Btw, I don't defend the indefensible as you Democrats own that tactic outright...