As someone who's far from conservatist, I want to address the elephant in the room. Having had N abortions is not a thing you should be proud of, but not something you should be ashamed of either. Exactly why is getting an abortion "bad"? (God is not a valid argument because you have no concrete and unbiased proof that he(or maybe she?) even exists, and beliefs are subjective) Here are mine though: life starts from just a couple cells and a bunch of genetic material, so it could theoretically be recreated outside of the uterus. (Or would we be playing a hypothetical god that way?) Also, were the pregnancy to put the mother's life in danger, would you risk the death of both the fetus(unborn child if that's what you prefer) and the mother? As for Columbine, know that pregnancy may cause mental health issues(which, mind you, were the reason behind that tragedy). Are these the same thing? No. Is abortion and murder the same thing? No. I rest my case.