Ought be self explanatory.
The ones that differ.
If you're a liberal, review your comments that ridicule, insult, and otherwise malign others that espouse different political, religious, societal views, etc.
Those views.
I will go ahead and grab the lamb by the tail and state your first two "comebacks":
1) Republiworms do it too!
2) Trump
Conservative individuals don't hate your differences, they are intolerant of having to participate in your being different.
Mostly the "others" seem largely unimpressed by the "acceptance" people not being accepting of them just the way they are - binary, gun totin, sometimes male and caucasian...
I know this is verbose but I get paid by the keystroke.