Thank you, everyone could but many refuse to do the work. We all change and unless you chose to change together marriages fail. Two tips an older man gave me: give the second person to get home ten minutes to wind down before discussing any problems, and when the argument gets loud, leave the room.
They are both good, the second one works because you leave before the argument gets worse, come back calm and discuss whatever happened. The first is a reminder that dumping drama on someone walking in the door before you ask about their day is an attack. Wait, discuss, work it out.
You are all doing a great job with this stream. I will say this as a happily married man; I couldn't function without my wife. I panic when she touches my tools, knowing that I should do it myself or quickly make a plan to repair it later, but I will never not encourage her to try. Her hobbies include watching shows showing million-dollar home renovations and thinking it will work for us. And, spending way too much time pretending to be a vet.
We are wired differently and that is why it works. I thank God for her every single day.
