Well when you frame people existing and being accepting as grooming it really does. I am not arguing of it should be banned I am arguing what you define as it. Teachers showing kids to accept other people and letting them know they can be themselves? not grooming. Teachers forcing kids to go by the opposite pronouns even though they don't want to? Child abuse, but not grooming. Teachers having sex with their children? Grooming. And that isn't LGBTQ+ exclusive.