It doesn't matter what I said.
Since I don't want gayness in any and every form hidden away to never be seen, I must be part of a malicious agenda that wants to turn all children super gay.
I can't possibly inhabit some middle ground that thinks it's okay to acknowledge gay people exist, but that we should exercise caution to ensure that what our children are exposed to is age appropriate.
Hence the questions. In general, if it would be okay for a straight couple to do in the movie, it should be okay for a gay couple. What we need to protect children from is unecessary overt sexuality, not gayness. Unfortunately many people are unable to separate the two.