Yes, I would.
Intention shows intelligence, care, rationality. You may not agree with Kyle acting upon his right to self-defense, but we all have that right.
Whereas what Baldwin did was pure stupidity, carelessness, lack of concern for others, etc. Those are not traits I am comfortable dealing with.
I'm not sure what Baldwin's stupidity is based in, other than he seems to have a fairly inflated opinion of his own self worth. Right up until he murdered someone, he may have felt he could do no wrong. At least he seemed to act that way, imo.
Before pointing a loaded weapon at someone they claim to have cared about, and pulling the trigger, anyone with an ounce of common sense, compassion, or concern for their fellow human beings would have checked to see if the gun was loaded.