These are the conversations I like.
I see your point. I do. Too many times people try to pass laws for good reasons make mistakes. Simple is better.
And if it worked that way in practice, I would be all for it. But it doesn't.
Per the Government Accountability Office, there are over 1000 statutory provisions in which marital status is a factor and a number of rights/benefits: immigration sponsorship, income tax deductions, family visitation rights, next of kin status, tax free inheritance, making medical decisions. If you want to argue that states were wrong to every block same sex marriage (government's job should not be morality). But even I will admit I have exceptions. Sex with minors for instance. Of course, that comes down to the harm principle.
If you wanted to redesign and remove all restrictions that have snuck into the law, then that might be an interesting thought exercise...but that would be a huge change.
Worse punishment based on - I think that's only if it is concluded to be a hate crime, and that isn't automatic. https://www.justice.gov/hatecrimes/learn-about-hate-crimes
There could be (and probably are) hate crimes against Whites and Christians. But they are more common against others. Instead of railing against laws that we (thankfully) don't need at the moment, we should be thankful.
Did you know that the death penalty is given most frequently if the victim is a white woman? In Texas, 3x as likely. That isn't the law, but it is an observed trend. SCOTUS had previously ended the death penalty for a while due to the fact that black people received it more often - they interpreted this to be cruel and unusual punishment, focus on the unusual part.
I think you are wrong about Biden. Honestly, I was hoping early on that it was true because he wasn't my candidate...then when he finally came out and debated, I had to admit he carried himself well....not great, but he didn't crash and burn. Same when he faced Trump. For both of us, its a mix of believing the 'press' and wishful thinking. I know he stayed out of the limelight...but that turned out to be a good strategy. Trump is best with an opponent, he doesn't do as well when he doesn't have someone to spar against. Fundamental transformation of America - I think that's paranoia. You should look back at all of the Obama predictions. We were supposed to be mad max by the end of his second term.