I'm going to say this because someone should. Didn't want it to be me, but ...
George Carlin once said everything can be funny. He proceeded to try and make sexual assault and rape funny. If the greatest comedian ever can't make it funny...see where I'm going with this? He only had one side of the story. Sure, a rapist might find rape funny but the victim probably doesn't find it as funny. You, think?
I suppose people that have never experienced sexual assault, in any of it's many forms, would think they could comprehend the magnitude of what it does to a person's mind. They'd be WRONG but everyone thinks they have to have an opinion on every subject.
There is no "oh it wasn't that bad", "He just kissed you" or "he just groped your breasts". Assault is assault. The statute of limitations is longer for sexual assault cases because it can takes years for a victim to admit to themselves, let alone the public, that it even happened. It's degrading and humiliating. Duh! Society tends to punish victims and raise up the sick twisted neanderthal that thought he had the right to assault her in the first place, because he didn't consider what he did assault. Some people even make memes letting the world know they're the sort that thinks siding with the accused attacker over the victim before they even hear a single word from the ONLY VICTIM IN THE ROOM isn't disgusting. YIKES!! Who does that IRL, right?
Maybe it's a move of desperation. A ploy, maybe. Maybe it's real and she was hoping people would see he's not qualified so she wouldn't have had to say anything. Maybe, maybe, maybe. Until we hear them tell us in their own words, no one knows anything. Come back after you've been forced to kiss someone against your will. At least then you'll know what it does to you instead of getting drug into what's trending and going viral.
When you form an opinion before you have heard both sides all you're doing is spreading the propaganda from one side. Who forms an opinion before they even know the whole story? Ooooooooh. Sorry for pointing that out.
I know everyone will attack. It's okay. I can take your frustration. Just don't call me stupid for pointing out what everyone knows. Sexual assault isn't a subject to take lightly. (I personally think if the accuser is found to be making it all up they should get jail time. it's a serious subject that you have to have all the information for. that's all im saying. Love and light to all.)