It matters not what it thinks, says or does. Grind is at work. He b**ches about EVERYTHING. I think he needs to get....lol. People are gonna bust your balls. It can't change what you believe. Sticks and stones. The ones that are the most afraid are the ones that will attack. Pay them no mind. They're just as confused as the rest of us because no one really knows a thing. Harm none... but live your life! (you count in that "none" btw). It's not always easy but no matter how rough it gets... it's worth the ride. Bumps/grinds show up. Don't argue unless it's for fun. They...and there will be many...can't win. Not that I know you but ... follow your heart. Don't harm yourself or anyone else. Pay close attention to the coincidences and take a lifetime to learn how to meditate. That oughta makes grinds head spin. Lol. The fact that you question has already put you ahead of the game. God, or whatever you believe in, never said "Follow blindly my son, because mindless shepp is all I want you to ever be". You've got this nos. Just walk away. *wink *wink.

We didn't even get the look. We had to tattle on ourselves before someone else did or it was waaay worse. If you knew you did something wrong and didn't tell and your brother told...oy! And he ALWAYS told. I remember one kid that tried it. We never saw him again! Lol.

Oy vey! Lol. What's in your heart was put there to follow. Only the strong have been given the honor of a completely different path. It'll be difficult but knowing you were chosen for something special ... That's all you need. Everyone giving you crap is just a distraction. Even Grind has been placed on a path. You can't hate the ones that strengthen your resolve. No point in arguing if you're following your heart. That's all the wise old lady crap I've got time for this morning. ROFL. It's all true but I'm not the token Momma on imgflip so ... Work it out or go to your rooms! *wink *wink. Love and light damn it! Roflmfao!!