Actually I haven't. I'm still dating my first girlfriend (three years as of Feb 2nd), and she is quite the blessing in my life. She is so far out of my league (in both beauty and virtue) it's almost unfair, but hey, I'm not complaining :)
Either works for me. It speaks to one's discernment. The hags like what's mentioned above aren't hard to spot for someone qualified to date the queen. And I'm sure that an opposing side would flip the scrip and say the same thing. "Hagginess" is in the eye of the beholder.