:: sigh :: To my haters...I don't know you and I don't really care if you live or die. imgflip.com/i/1ij7ct
To people who are not stupid: I really get why some people have enough. I joke that some folks are too oversensitive for the internet, but the truth is that not everybody's seen what I've seen, including enduring some of the trolling I've endured. You do have to develop a pretty thick skin to not gaf.
It may help to understand that personality tends to be pervasive. A very intelligent sociopath can lead a double life, but with most on the internet, "wysiwyg". Useless people always have an opinion about how the world should be, and that's always kissing their butt. It never changes. So let them have the internets. They have nothing else.
The unmoderated or low moderation areas of internet are not really the places to look for any validation. It's going to be a free-for-all for all the sh** and misery that lurks in the human soul, and the people with the most time and negative energy are going to be the most vocal. Just brace yourself for that and don't expect any better. This might help.
Just accept that anyplace that is allowed to be a sh**hole will be a sh**hole. Use the service sanely, focus on the people who don't suck as much, and if you know someone is a nutbar, don't talk to them. Trust Nature that they are as useless offline as they are online, and will eventually find their way into a circlejerk because they are the ones who need validation on the internet.
...and if a site you're on becomes a circlejerk, and you're not okay with that, fight it as long as the owner is fighting. If they stop fighting (usually because they're planning to sell or let it lapse because they're building something that won't become a sh**hole) the internet is a great big place...