I remember a relative of mine who was in the military refusing to play horse shoes at puc nics because the joke would be that he was secretly a racist nazi because he was german, went to church and only knew similar white people, he would complain that he came from a small town with only white people, went in the military to see the world and all different people, but got stationed all over the world only with small town white people and never had a chance to get to know anyone but other small town white people because of how and where they stationed him.......