Sing Hallelu YAH before, during and after you meet her. This will comfort you and you will stay detached to the content. This goes for everyone. When a human's best friend is MISERY, they find fault in "EVERY"thing. You can prepare RATIONAL dialogues in your head, try to comfort them with flattering words, pointing out the good things, nothing will work because you are NOT dealing with a HUMAN, you are dealing with the SPIRIT of MISERY. MISERY only wants to be MISERABLE and wants to make everyone around it MISERABLE as well. The human that it comes through is NOT happy with what they are doing but they can NOT help it. When it comes with full force, there is NO RHYME or REASON to the person's behaviors and words they are saying. That's why there is no way to stop it RATIONALLY. Telling lies to stop it only makes you MISERABLE and RESENTFUL, then the "SPIRIT of MISERY"'s Goal is ACCOMPLISHED.
SING HALLELu YAH… You will be comforted. If she is with you, she will come towards you, if she is with MISERY, you know where she is going...