The text book definition of a narcissist is someone who manipulates other people into doing things for them and if that person refuses then the narcissist attempts to make them feel guilty or shame for not having altered their lives for the narcissist.
This entire gender fluid, transgenderism, queer, whatever group who demand that you use their pronouns or else, are all narcissists. And they are encouraged to be even more narcissistic by the narcissists who run the Democrat Party.
After all if you do not march 100% in lockstep with the Democrats then they assign all sorts of labels to you hoping they will make you fell bad so that you will fall in line with them. That trick got old 40 years ago and conservatives are just done with their narcissistic behavior.