I grew up in a large dysfunctional family, and didn't want to bring a innocent shoot off of dysfunction into the world to suffer the convenience of forced existence that neither them or I could afford just because my genitalia enjoyed sex. I also didn't want to raise a kid to hear the words I wished I never had you, or your worthless, or if I could re do everything I wouldn't have kids. Very sad dysfunction. Some people should never be parents.