Graeystone: "Well to be honest 'war' used to be a 'spectator sport' for the rich or locals."
thesis: "This has literally never been true. "
Typical thesis. Wrong. Just flat out wrong.
One example...
"On the morning of July 21, 1861, civilians from Washington rode out to Centreville, Virginia, to watch a Union army made up of very green recruits—they signed up for a 90-day war—march boldly into combat. Men, women, and even children came to witness the predicted Union victory, bringing along picnic baskets and opera glasses. Bull Run soon became known as the "picnic battle." "
https://www.senate.gov/artandhistory/history/minute/Witness_Bull_Run.htm#:~:text=On%20the%20morning%20of%20July%2021%2C%201861%2C%20civilians,victory%2C%20bringing%20along%20picnic%20baskets%20and%20opera%20glasses.