I’m only responsible for my own actions. I don’t see pointing out actions of others to be an attack on me, because we are all Americans.
Condemning a rapist isn’t an attack on a group the man belongs to.
I feel like a woman pointed to a group of men and says “that guy in the middle raped me!” The guy responds, “did you hear that, she called us rapists!”
The people who are comfortable judging all (or most, if you prefer) liberals, BLM, Muslims, refugees, etc. together also seem to think the same is happening back at them. People who talk about entire groups instead of individuals assume that others are too.
The “all white people are racist" lady sounds like she falls into that category.