I'm not offended by the progressive comment. I'm in my early 40's and was too busy writing video games and physics/vehicle dynamics software all my life to ever go to college where such things are discussed at great length by kids in their 20's trying to figure out where they fit into the world, so not only do I not know what the phrase means, I don't care that I don't know. I don't have to fit in with anyone and I don't give two shits what some college kid who hasn't done a damned thing in his life yet thinks about me. (Not talking about you, just the general idea).
"Progressive" sounds like a snotty "my ideas are better than yours" way that a group of people can categorize their thought processes in such a way that they win by definition, as though if someone doesn't agree with a particular idea they deem "progressive", they are regressive idiots who want the world to go backwards by definition. I'd bet half of them are Marxists anyway. It's annoying.
I think what I think and am not trying to fit in with the college kids that spend too much time trying to apply a word with a previously existing definition to every conceivable idea that has "ism" in it through wild free association in drum circles around a bong. The phrase "intellectual masturbation" comes to mind. Fun, but it's not particularly useful to keep redefining words every year. That's a way to lose everyone in the conversation and make sure the only people you're talking to who know what you're talking about is your circle of friends. I suspect what people are really doing is figuring out a thought process they can use to cope with life. That's fine, but what you're supposed to do is invent new words and phrases for those new ideas, not hijack ones that already have definitions. Stop making us old people have to relearn the English language every time a new class of kids graduates college, ok?
Let's allow "racism" to mean one thing, as currently defined in the Oxford Dictionary: The belief that your race is superior to others.
It's a stupid idea, as is the idea of race to begin with, but that's what it is. I was raised of the mind that if the idea of race never entered one's mind, there would be no such thing as racism, or at least it'd be reduced a lot. Morgan Freeman has expressed a similar view. "Stop talking about it," he said. And since Morgan Freeman really is God, we should listen.