In some universe, I may be a butt hurt dumbass, but it's better than being a tool. Whatever hurt my butt experiences is my own, and how ever dumb I am, that's on me. But I don't trail behind anyone, licking up their crumbs and saying, "Yassa that's right, I agree with everything you say suh!" But your man is popular here. You've got that going for you. Isn't it so nice to be a part of the in-crowd? Have so many people who agree with you? So warm and comfortable. Scientists say that conformists get the same kind of rush from following as they do from sex. So I wasn't expecting to change your opinion. I just wanted you to know that it's not based on any actual facts, just your desire to follow and be part of the group. If that doesn't bother you, then cool...but it would bother me to be like that.