You probably had better things to do,... work,.. family! I only joined because I had a surgery and a lot of time on my hands,.. then started having fun after getting tutored by user tetsuoswrath,.. he mentored me on how to really use the site and have a good time. I had other good advice along the way,.. evilmandoevil, socrates,.. and raydog. tets really set me up!