Oh, no, I was pointing out that your "fearless alpha male leader" routinely throws temper tantrums and does something toddlerish like rename a lake. It's like he's crying and saying "well, you can't come to my birthday party!"
But, hey, you wanna make it like that how about this:
What about Chris Watts? He murdered his pregnant wife and two kids. He said he had no control over himself when he did it.
Using your "logic" men can't be trusted with anything because they cannot control themselves.