Let me clarify.
The fact that men don’t get help is usually because of the stigma that men are tough and supposed to handle their feelings on their own, which is an image that men have imposed on themselves just to dominate, as a sort of standard, and this has its roots in biology itself, where men usually do all of the work while females make babies, but also the fact that men are usually more dependent on others’ approval, either always wanting to provide in a perfect way or “enforce” their superiority so that no one can talk back.
I’m not saying that I want anyone to suffer or to be stigmatized and persecuted because of their gender. I’m actively against that. I’m not saying that anyone deserves that kind of treatment. In fact, I never said “They have it coming” word for word. What I’m saying is that in this day and age, the fact that the degradation of mental health and functions in men can be attributed to a generational standard that they have put on themselves is cosmically ironic.
Not to say I find that funny, righteous, correct, deserved even, or that I don’t want that to change, it’s just ironic.
Of course sexism and sexual harassment and abuse faced by men is important and shouldn’t be passed under the rug. There should be higher awareness about this sort of thing, and I find it disgusting how this is ignored in media and in general discussion.
What I’m also saying is that it’s more important to women because they’ve faced this for as long as humans existed. They have an entire HISTORY behind fighting sexual abuse and sexism and getting rights men already had. And they’re more targeted then men since the old sexist standards, norms and stigmas that say “men = this”, “women = that” and “men > women” from the Antiquity still exist today. Less pronounced, yes, but still there. There’s solidarity in women’s rights, which isn’t a thing for men. A lot of men don’t get sexually abused or harassed.
I’m hearing you out, but you haven’t done anything to prove that sexism and sexual abuse is not a more deciding and important factor in women’s lives compared to men’s. And you haven’t listened to me either, instead calling me slurs and flipping me off. It’s immature quite frankly, and if you can’t cope with the fact that people may have different opinions or say things in ways that might not be completely orthodox, then you should stop commenting.