I agree. Another part of the problem is that too many people don't know what maturity means, or worse, see maturity as a liability rather than a asset, because they see mature people as chumps, as chickens, as doormats, as pushovers. as sissies, as wimps, as wussies.
If I was a parent, I would rather my kids be seen as chickens than as monsters. You should be scared to destroy other things and/or people. If you destroy everything you don't like and destroy everyone who abuses or criticizes or mistreats you, you'll either end up all alone or you'll end up dead.