Exactly. I might add — their bodies grow from toddlers to teenagers. The minds haven’t grown, they’ve just been programmed.
Parents don’t recognize the stages of life where the boy must be instructed what it is, & what it means, & what it takes to become a young man. And then again, from young man, to a man. They stop working at it, once they make it from infant to toddler to boy. Some stop, at toddler.