Learn a skill / trade.
Learn to live within your means.
Build a safety net by saving.
Expand your income before you expand your lifestyle. If you need a degree for that, use inexpensive online or community college.
The secret is not giving up. You may say it is not fair to you. How is it different than a bee collecting pollen all day so that at the end of its shift gets attack by a wasp and dismembered to be fed to the wasp larvae who needs to feed. Then, how is that different than the the wasp who has been hunting all day to feed the colonies larvae but as soon as it finds food a bird snatches it and feed it to its baby birds? Sometimes tou have to accept what you been given and move forward instead of being locked into a victim mind state that will blind you from opportunities and predators ahead of you.
How about instead of complaining about “How hard it is for you” and demanding everyone else sacrifice everything for you, you actually try to succeed n life? I lost a brother to a genetic lung disease but despite constant oxygen deficiency he was a hard worker and never sat around whining about how hard it was to be in the hospital for weeks at a time.