You’re putting a lot on your shoulders. Defending peoples feelings of which you don’t know. Sounds like someone has a savior complex.
I recall going to Universal Studios to go on the Twister Ride. It was closed that day because people died in a Tornado that week (in another state). Because feelings!
It’s okay to listen to one heart. Just make sure it’s attached to the brain.
As far as Trump being Narcissistic. No argument there. I don’t need to defend that. Lots are people are narcissist.