I hear you. SAD but true.
I am female so can dish on my own sex as you alluded to high numbers of women being part of the problem. We have managed to lower standards since we got the right to vote. By that I mean we have so many SJW females, know-it-alls, feelz over facts gals & emotionally triggered women fueling the leftist agenda with their surface thinking.
Most men are conservatives unless wussified by women who put a pussy hat on them and own them. Therein lies the problem that the Democrats won't acknowledge (as their base consists of women, men who want to be women, women who want to be men and confusion delusion). Oh, and don't forget the ones who don't even know what a woman is...
Anyway, wish you luck next time you call on behalf of your brother; just know that there are kindred spirits out here who understand where you are coming from....
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