So, do you not support the troops? You cant support then critisize how a couple goes through it. Yeah, its gotta be tough, not knowing, family left behind etc, believing your spouce has brass balls or va**na to serve, the fortitude to stand by and support no matter what as they fight for the security and safety of others, a noble and selfless pursuit. If shes phony, then so would be your support and with no dog in the race.