"Do you understand the difference between following the rules on a private website like this, and an actual infringement on freedom of speech?"
Absolutely I do. You were bitching that flagging a meme for racism when it's not racist is against the rules (I will also point out that flagging a meme for racism when it's not racist is harassment) - then I said "So you're the only judge of what's racist and what's not?" - you denied saying that without picking up the point that it's all in the eye of the beholder. Anyone can feel like they see something racist and flag it - after that it's up to the mods to decide. Those are the rules, I know that you'd like to bend them to fit your own agenda.
Regarding the fried chicken comment, I like fried chicken and I'm white. Why should I begrudge black people the right to eat fried chicken?
I don't have to share my condemnation with you or your thought police. I'll keep my condemnations to myself, thank you. Just because I'm not crying in my pillow over what an anonymous person said on a meme site doesn't mean I'm a racist.