Can an anti-semite have Jewish friends?

In the book "Schindler's List" I remember a chilling quote: "Look, we all have our 'favorite Jew.' But we must not let sentimentality prevent us from doing what needs to be done."

That is chilling indeed. And a reason why I always talk to people who say things like: 'I'm not a racist because I like this black dude who often scores for my favourite team. It's just all other black people who are criminals, lazy and stupid. Oh, except for that nice guy from the taco stand at work of course.' And similar racist speech. It weren't the million people who supported Hitler that got him his power; it were the millions who said 'I don't care about politics. Besides, I'm not a Jew.'

Or "I'll let a black man over to my house for dinner, I just won't let him date my daughter"

Or vice versa.
People who talk racist yet date the 'them' - made ok because, of course, because they're not gonna marry them. Which half the times they end up doing anyways! Dumbasses.

hahaha, when I was a kid and my 'peers' would be spewing stuff against my blood, they'd catch themselves as I had blended in' or 'passed' for one of them so they'd slip sometimes and forget my 'background.' Anyways, yeah, they turn to me and say, "Well except you, you're different from them." like that made it ok or I was to take that as a compliment.