Yea that’s true, but many times (at least for me), it’s not a “kid not listening to what an adults says” argument. In fact, many times it’s then starting the argument. For example, they aren’t satisfied with the way I’m doing something (homework, chores, etc). Then when I try to explain to them that that’s the way I like to do it and how I do it best, they don’t listen and they see it as “attitude”. No matter what I say in an argument, they only see it as “attitude”. Even if I’m right, they just use it as a way to get me to shut up and then they start lecturing me about some random thing that’s completely irrelevant. So now, I’ve already gave up. I just don’t say anything and listen to what ever they want to say (even if it’s not true). Sometimes, I’ll even lie and say I did something I didn’t do (because that’s the only thing they want to hear) so they can stop talking.