You know those sorts of people who just don't know when to quit, or just refuse to admit that they're wrong, or they know that they're wrong, but they just don't care, OR in my case, ALL 3? Well, so do I.
FYI as a full grown adult there are always two sides to every argument and while grown ups can be wrong and kids can be wrong as well nothing makes it worse then when the child gets more attitude about it. However some grown ups don't like to admit when they are wrong lol. Just try to avoid silly arguments amd remember when your 18 you can move out and make your own rules lol
Ok so I hate when my parents do just as much as the next, but you guys really gotta cut them some slack. It’s frustrating for them when their kids don’t just do what they say, and I get that. I argue with them just as much as you all do, and get just as triggered when they say this, but I really can’t blame them for it. A lot of people don’t give their parents enough credit.
Yea that’s true, but many times (at least for me), it’s not a “kid not listening to what an adults says” argument. In fact, many times it’s then starting the argument. For example, they aren’t satisfied with the way I’m doing something (homework, chores, etc). Then when I try to explain to them that that’s the way I like to do it and how I do it best, they don’t listen and they see it as “attitude”. No matter what I say in an argument, they only see it as “attitude”. Even if I’m right, they just use it as a way to get me to shut up and then they start lecturing me about some random thing that’s completely irrelevant. So now, I’ve already gave up. I just don’t say anything and listen to what ever they want to say (even if it’s not true). Sometimes, I’ll even lie and say I did something I didn’t do (because that’s the only thing they want to hear) so they can stop talking.
Yea, that’s another thing that annoys me. I think my voice is just deeper and with less emotion (if that makes sense), so sometimes when I just talk normally, my parents will think I’m giving them attitude and get angry with me.
Another thing is that when you feel annoyed your voice will sound it, it takes a lot of practice to keep a calm voice when you are angry or annoyed. The best solution is to take a moment to calm down before arguing your point.