"How many pro life organizations praise and encourage violence against pro choice groups or individuals?"
Some, not all. But they do exist
"how many set up websites encouraging illegal activities like picketing private residences, doxxing people and threatening to kill them and their family members when they don't get their way?"
I'm not sure the number
"How many have marches promising they will be ungovernable and have a summer of rage kicking off millions of dollars in damages to groups with the specific intent of helping those you say we don't care about?"
Probably zero
"How many intentionally disturb church services for civilians who aren't even involved in law making?"
Anti-abortion activists tend to be Christians, so they don't disrupt church services, unless you count the instance where an abortion provider was murdered while attending church, and he was murdered by an anti-abortion Christian terrorist.
"Show me where American Life League or students for life as a whole behaved the way Ruth Sent Us or Jane's Revenge is behaving"
I don't know what specific activities those groups have engaged in, but I know there have been many anti-abortion groups who have harassed and intimidated people trying to gain access to abortion clinics. It got so bad the government had to pass a law making it illegal to block the entrance to clinics because antiabortion activists were literally trying to prevent people from physically entering the building.
"Their mantra being "If abortions aren't safe then neither are you" threatening an entire group of people who only want to stop the killing of humans, so noble. 🙄 I pity anyone who thinks this is ok"
I don't support their threats or violence, but I understand why they're angry