OK- so it's settled then that you don't actually believe in charity, you believe in confiscation of other people's property so someone else can handle charity for you.
As for intersex people, again, that is a true rarity, but it cannot negate how they choose to live. I do not need to be one to understand the implications, anymore than you have a right to defend them without similar firsthand knowledge; either I can put forth my opinion as you do, or we both need to shut up. But I do not agree with your misguided premise.
As to being convinced of my own righteousness, nothing could be further from the truth. Telling you the truth about a matter that the Bible makes clear has NOTHING to do with my own righteousness or lack thereof. A true Christian is only one to begin with because that person has acknowledged their complete LACK of personal righteousness, and therefore is in need of the work of the Savior. Just because you do not like God's message, does not mean you should presume such an attitude on the messenger.
On this, at least, we agree: "Because too few choose to be cheerful givers.", but raising taxes is not the right solution as all it does is create a whole lot more "cheerful takers".
As for the typical liberal appeal to Deuteronomy, as is always the case, you do not understand the soundbites you have picked up from other liberals. I will admit that I do not fully relate to those passages, but they a.) apply only to an ancient Israel, and b) were commands given at a time when women were treated as throwaway property. Such a command by God saved many women from certain starvation, etc., and overall the act of rape is condemned. God also gave commands like the stoning of children that disparaged their parents. It is not likely that many parents found the need, nor the desire, to follow through with that, but as we see today, commands/laws without consequences are at best mere suggestions. You have not thought through the implications and how these commands would have changed that ancient society, and how incredibly different this made it compared to its contemporaries.